We all want to be happy and loved

Coming out from a client session . Reflecting on it. And finding that we do not need so many diagnosis and analysis . What we actually need is Hearts to break open.
Though we all might have stories to tell that sound different , behind all of it is just one and the same "story" .
We all want to be happy and loved. 
Something happens that makes us shut down our senses and feelings in order to hurt less about not feeling loved and happy.
This is the beginning of dysfunction in our life , and those of others.
The patterns that makes us "safe" from our own feelings, increase... thus our ability to live and enjoy the world as it is . with all that is decreases more and more . We substitute "connection and empathy" with "social activity and sympathizing" with the effect of feeling more and more distanced and lonely.
And no perspective to change that.
The vicious circle has cast its spell on us.

To lift the veils , we need to start feeling again , which is very hurtful at first . That is why we search for lots of methods and be-lives that promise us to get around these birthing pains.

We rather stay in the isolated/gray/depressed/you name it condition as we are afraid we are going to break completely when we allow to re-integrate what was suppressed.

But it is possible .. it is NOT dangerous ... the first time you allow it with the support of a safe place and a person you trust , will be a wonderful break-through back into LIFE and a feeling of truly becoming alive and connected again.