Loosing What We Never Wanted

InSight from a client session : 
How much suffering do we create, when we cling to an idea of what we DO NOT HAVE / ACHIEVE / GET / LIVE . When confronted with limitations, we often get caught in the resistance and grief about the "loss", 
even when this loss is about something we never wanted in first place. 
But now the "loss" is overshadowing all we have , we live in a mind of poverty , instead in the abundance of what actually IS - even if that what IS once have been our biggest dream.
This fight against perceived loss of something we never wanted , gets out of hand , makes daily life a torture even when we live our dream.

Shifting perspective is the key we need to find and use.
To step back into abundance and expand our mind, heart and body again , who have restrained themselves in the poverty state and caused mutliple symptoms on all levels and cut short on our life.