Allow For Help - Allow Receiving

I am back from a short holiday in Norway ....
some times we need to set ourselves loose , even physically , to jump in another kind of flow than we are usually in in our daily lives....
We do have a lot of really good ideas, we quote wise words but often we do not really be-live that life is about surrender , flow and love. We might THINK it but we miss the FEELING part .
Thus, travelling and experiencing things out of our comfort zone is a good thing .
Here comes a little sharing from our journey:

We had no fixed plan and just followed our heart.
This brought us up into the Norwegian mountain .
We drove quiet a while until we realized that to go on we would need to pay a fee to enter the Conservation Park and go on . Actually we had no Norwegian hard money to put into the machine .
So we entered the little supermarket ( the only place open in the whole area ) , but it turned out that neither could we change money nor could they take the sort of card we had. ....
In that minute a young woman stepped up out of nowhere and just offered us the money we needed , without anything in return !
No money , no thing. Just that.
We had a very nice conversation and we shared the happiness about our human meeting. ...
My learning : it is equally necessary to learn to receive as it is to give.
We need to un-controll and un-plan our lifes in order to open the doors for the hearts to open again...
if we always avoid to come into the place of being helpless we deprive ourselves of the wonderful opportunity to meet the goodness in others and restore our belief in humanity . 

Loosing What We Never Wanted

InSight from a client session : 
How much suffering do we create, when we cling to an idea of what we DO NOT HAVE / ACHIEVE / GET / LIVE . When confronted with limitations, we often get caught in the resistance and grief about the "loss", 
even when this loss is about something we never wanted in first place. 
But now the "loss" is overshadowing all we have , we live in a mind of poverty , instead in the abundance of what actually IS - even if that what IS once have been our biggest dream.
This fight against perceived loss of something we never wanted , gets out of hand , makes daily life a torture even when we live our dream.

Shifting perspective is the key we need to find and use.
To step back into abundance and expand our mind, heart and body again , who have restrained themselves in the poverty state and caused mutliple symptoms on all levels and cut short on our life.